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Growing up, Tanya Kentish often wondered why her story looked different from everyone elseâs. Years ago, when financial hardship made it impossible for her biological mother to care for all of her children, she made the difficult decision to place Kentish in the care of someone else. At the time, it felt like loss. Years later, Kentish realised that it was the beginning of a journey that would transform pain into purpose. That journey came full circle last Saturday night when the 21-year-old communications and service operations manager was crowned Miss St James Festival Queen 2026. For Kentish, the title represents far more than a personal achievement. It is an opportunity to inspire girls growing up in circumstances similar to her own and to believe that their beginnings do not define their future.Asked what her younger self would think if she knew she would one day wear the St James Festival Queen crown, Kentishâs face lit up with the excitement of a little girl reliving a childhood dream.âSheâd first be like, âWait, you entered a competition?â Then sheâd be like, âOh ... we won ... wow!â she laughed.For a brief moment, the confident young woman wearing the crown disappeared. In her place was the little girl who had once questioned where she belonged.âThis means so much to me because I remember deciding years ago that I no longer wanted to feel isolated. I didnât want to feel depressed. I wanted to be more than just what my story said I was supposed to be,â she recalled. âI started asking myself, âWhat is the purpose in my story? What can I use from what Iâve been through to grow and to elevate?ââThat question changed the course of her life. The answer led her to volunteer at the Granville Girlsâ Home; establish Her Voice, a mentorship programme for girls in residential care and teen mothers; and pursue studies in guidance and counselling as she works towards becoming a clinical psychologist.Through Her Voice, she hopes to provide mentorship, counselling, literacy support, life-skills training, and educational opportunities for girls facing challenges similar to those she once experienced.âI want them to know that where you start isnât where youâre going to finish,â she said. âHow you finish is determined by you. You can either sit there in pity, or you can use that pain to rise.âJust as importantly, Kentish hopes her own story will challenge the misconceptions surrounding children in state care.Too often, she says, people assume that every ward of the State is a child who has misbehaved. Her own experience reminds her that children enter state care for many different reasons. In her case, it was financial hardship, not bad behaviour, that changed the course of her childhood. Although there was a period when feelings of rejection caused her to act out, and the Child Development Agency intervened, she believes those experiences reinforced why children in care need understanding, mentorship, and opportunity.One of the eveningâs most touching moments came after the coronation when both her biological and adoptive families gathered to celebrate.âI have both my biological family here supporting me as well as my adopted family,â she said. âI believe thatâs a gift because there are a lot of adopted children who donât even know their biological mother.âAmong those celebrating was her adopted mother, Nicole Smith, who had travelled from the United States for the occasion.âI donât like the word âadopted,ââ Smith said simply. âSheâs my child.â Watching her daughter greet well-wishers, Smith smiled.âSheâs always a star to me,â she said. âI declared that she was already a winner.âAs Kentish prepares to represent St James at the national competition, she hopes that the greatest impact of her reign will not be measured by the crown she wears but by the confidence she helps build in another little girl who may still be wondering where she belongs.âIf one young girl reads my story, I want her to know that she can do anything she puts her mind to,â she said. âUse your voice. Even if you donât sound as eloquent as someone else, use that voice because the voice that you have is so powerful.â
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